I was sitting in a café with my boss, just back from a global event that had gone well. Despite waves of redundancies across tech, I believed I was somewhat insulated. Then she said, “It looks like your role may be made redundant.”
I had led others through change for years. Restructures, cost optimisations, town halls. I knew the language. I had used it myself. And my children were both still very much on the payroll.
The money wasn’t the hardest part. A few days later, someone asked me, “So, what do you do?” A question I had answered without thinking for thirty years. This time, I paused.
In that pause, I saw how much of my identity I had tied to my title and my role: my confidence, my sense of belonging, even the rhythm of my days. So I did the harder work. I separated who I am from what I did, and began rebuilding an identity that doesn’t depend on any one employer.
What carried me through was preparation I had made years earlier. I had invested in income-generating property and other investments, and their income covered our basic costs. I had also invested in myself, with AI, board and coaching certifications. It was a crossroads, not a crisis.
I could also see what I wish I had started sooner: building entrepreneurial options and skills while I was still employed, more income beyond property, and far more visibility outside the company. That’s what I now help leaders build, before they need it.